It is difficult for young girls to determine the physiological manifestations during intimacy with a guy. Not everyone knows how to correctly identify the signs of male arousal. They are both physiological and psychological. Knowing them, any girl will be able to understand when the guy is excited and it's time to move on to the next stage of intimacy.
Signs of arousal when you kiss
Touching each other with lips excites boys and girls. The moment they kiss, men give their desire for sex with the following signs:
- Rapid breathing and heartbeat.
- Biting the partner's lips.
- Dilated nostrils.
- Pupil dilation.
- Redness of lips, cheeks.
- The guy tries to cling to the girl with his whole body.
- Propagation.
- Hoarseness in the voice after a kiss.
- Before kissing a partner, he licks his lips, bites them, touches them with his fingers.
- Touch his neck after a kiss.
After the kiss, the guy looks forward to continue, excited to the limit. He will give excitement and other signs. Look at it carefully right after your lips part. He will have a lost, blurry look, most likely the guy will take a deep breath and hug you tightly. If the kiss is not filled with passion, physical and emotional stress, then the man does not have strong feelings for his partner, or his head is occupied with something else.
Signs of arousal after a kiss in girls are the same as in men. But women can demonstrate it more vividly, for example by moaning or passionately caressing their partner's neck with their fingers.
Under hugs
Understanding that a guy is excited during a kiss is simple, you touch your lips, hear his breathing, feel his heartbeat. But hugs will not give you such a range of information. Although at the time of hugging you can be aware of the following manifestations:
- The partner wants to hug the girl, to reduce the distance between the bodies. Use any excuse to do it.
- The guy touches the partner's neck, face, hair, waist, shoulders, knees, arms.
- He does not immediately remove his hands from the body of his beloved, lingers, wanting to prolong the pleasant moment.
- The man tries to meet the woman's eyes. The look is deep and long.
- In the moment of hug, he puts his head on the shoulder of his beloved, buries his nose in the neck.
- Performs progressive movements: pressed firmly and then moved away.
- After a passionate touch, the skin becomes "goose eyes", a shiver runs through it.
- He tugs at the hem of his clothes.
- He tries to get under the girl's blouse with the palm of his hand.
- Sweaty palms.
- Increased saliva secretion. The guy is thirsty, drinks a lot of water.
- It tightens the muscles, keeps the back straight to look more gathered, toned.
- Penis tension. This symptom is the most important and noticeable, especially if the guy wears tight pants or thin shorts.
Recently, scientists have discovered another hormone - kisspeptin. It activates the cells of the pituitary gland, which are responsible for the production of gonadtrope (sexual behavior). Therefore, it is not recommended to exclude lip-to-lip kisses from foreplay. This stage triggers a chemical reaction in the body and stimulates sexual desire.
physical signs
The physiology of men and women is such that at the moment of arousal their bodies tense up and expect intimacy with a partner. Girls become more flexible, pliable, respond passionately to the touch of a partner, the nipples harden, the genitals are moistened. For men, the situation is slightly different.
Physiological signs of sexual arousal in guys:
- If he is next to the desired woman, he keeps his back straight.
- He unbuttons his shirt.
- Adjusts the belt on his pants.
- Touch his face.
- Reacts slowly to the interlocutor's questions.
- Spread your legs wide when you sit.
- Standing, taking the position "feet shoulder width apart".
- Rumbling out of the pelvis.
- Gesturing actively.
- He speaks loudly and quickly.
- He stares at the girl, trying to catch her eye.
- He opens his arms as if miming a hug.
- Embarrassed.
- Licking the lips often.
- Opens the mouth.
- Lowers the timbre of the voice, a slight hoarseness may occur.
- The face becomes sweet, friendly, conducive to communication.
- Eyebrows raised.
- Stutters in conversation.
- The pupils dilate, the color of the eyes may change.
In addition to these manifestations, to understand that a man is excited to the limit, his sweaty palms, trembling hands, and behavior like a peacock fluffing his tail and wooing his beloved female help. In such moments, girls need to control their behavior so that the flirtation does not go too far if the woman does not plan to have sex. Giving a guy false hope with tricks, touches and flirting is not worth it.
Psychological signs
It is very difficult for men to hide arousal. They are given out by psychological signs of tension. Guys do certain things, gesture in a certain way. It is impossible to control this process. So pay close attention to your partner. You will understand that the guy is excited, but hides this fact, if you notice the following manifestations:
- A man cares about his appearance. Fixes clothes, hairstyle, looks in the mirror.
- Does not move far away from the object of attention.
- Extends touch time at hand if girl gives him something.
- He is embarrassed to kiss so he touches the girl's face and hair.
- He showers the girl with compliments.
- Moves to a whisper if he says something intimate.
- It feels awkward if a girl looks at him without taking her eyes away.
- He tries to please his partner in order to achieve what he wants.
- When a girl reciprocates, smiles, experiences a spiritual upliftment.
The psychological aspects of arousal must be considered individually. Each man has his own characteristics of behavior.
Signs of arousal during texting
Modern people very often start love relationships through dating sites and social networks, so correspondence becomes an integral part of communication. If the girl has not yet met the interlocutor in person, and he writes several dozen SMS every day, you need to think that the man wants intimacy, rapprochement.
You can understand that a guy is excited during correspondence by the following signs:
- Frequently visits the social network to check for new messages from the object of attention.
- Uses any excuse to message a girl.
- Asks to throw a picture or sends his own. The honesty of the desired image depends on the degree of closeness between the guy and the girl.
- Responds quickly to messages, ready to help at any time of the day or night.
- Admits honestly to desire, although phrases may be veiled. For example, "I want to see you now", "You can't handle yourself, I could help if I was around", "It's a pity that we live in different cities, I would definitely report to yourswimming section and carefully review your figure. "
- Wants to correspond more often in the evening when he is relaxed and alone.
On a note! It is believed that the duration of intercourse and the hardness of the penis directly depends on the behavior and appearance of a woman at the time of foreplay. The moans, gentle touches on the buttocks, back, body movements help stimulate a guy for quality sex.
When talking on the phone
Signs of excited men on the phone will be as follows:
- Long conversations.
- Call for any reason.
- Pauses in the conversation.
- Ambiguous sentences and questions with sexual overtones, so the guy examines the waters.
- The voice is hoarse, the man tries to speak softly, to get rid of rude words.
- The boy is confused in his thoughts, answers out of place.
- In an excited man, the reaction to external stimuli is slowed down. So he speaks slowly on the phone.
- The guy breathes deeply, sighs often.
- Looking to meet as soon as possible.
- Constantly repeats that he likes the interlocutor.
- Offers her different options for a date, accepts any terms of the meeting.
- Ignite the girl's feelings by describing his virtues.
It is impossible to excite and tease a man by correspondence, telephone conversations for too long. Set the line yourself, taking into account the male character, his temperament. Otherwise, he will cool down and lose interest.
Tips for girls
Pay attention to the advice of sexologists on how to use the knowledge of the physiological and psychological signs of male arousal:
- Palpitations, shortness of breath and a wide gaze are uncontrollable signs of arousal in guys, so they are the most important. Read this information first.
- The verbal symptoms of a burning desire for sex include the timbre of the voice, its tempo and the features of the conversation. To notice them, you need to communicate with a man not by correspondence, but in reality.
- Another way to understand that a man wants sex is to follow his behavior at the time of the date. If he wants to win the female, he will show himself from the best side, keep his legs wide, perform uncontrolled reflex actions. But if a girl starts following his steps, she will be embarrassed, so watch your partner gradually, imperceptibly.
And one more important tip: if you understand that the guy is very excited, wants to see you in his bed, then make a decision about how your communication will continue. An erection without discharge is harmful to the male half. If a girl flirts and hints at sex, but constantly abandons her plans and plays with her partner's feelings, this will affect the guy's health. It is better to stop communicating or say directly that you are not yet ready for sex, than to entertain a man with false hopes for a long time.